The Buddha said that our suffering and confusion is the result of our
negative actions. Understand this and turn away from all behaviours
that are harmful to self and others. Use all your strength to resist
any tendency to cause harm to anyone. The Sons and Daughters of the
Buddhas all follow this practice.
 Meditating Buddha
Lama Das' Commentary:
When we hurt others, we run the risk that our actions will
boomerang back on ourselves. In some cases, we feel the repercussions
immediately -- often with our own immediate guilt, if not worse forms
of instant karma. Other times, it may take years or lifetimes. But the
laws of cause and effect are very clear. An essential spiritual rule: Do no harm. Cultivate the good. Be as good as you intrinsically are.
Self-Examination:
Am I scrutinising all my thoughts and actions for any trace or unwholesome motivation?
Shihan Henderson's Commentary:
First, nobody's perfect. And in Budo studies we focus a large amount of
our energy on searching for perfection or the perfect technique. But we
must understand that the perfect technique by definition does not exist
and therefore we will never attain it. When we keep this simple truth
in mind we are better able to see ourselves in a more positive light.
That is, we will never be perfect. Far too often people are their own
worse enemies. They, sometimes unknowingly, get down on themselves for
not being as good as they think they should be. This self-defeating
attitude also can pervade emotional states.
Often when an individual feels negative emotions building, he or she
may become anxious or upset with themselves since they wish these
feeling not to exist and their very existence creates inner guilt.
Inner guilt creates conflict and that conflict is a negative which
sooner or later will manifest itself in a physical way.
In order to break this tendency we must see ourselves as human with all
the faults and misgivings that we, and others, have. Again, nobody's
perfect.
Most importantly, we must understand that having negative feelings is
normal. It is what you do with them that is the critical issue.
Contrary to popular belief, we are not our feelings. We are something
else. The feelings that we have inside us are like visitors coming and
going as they often please. It is important to realize that these
emotions are not your core self. They float above your core, or your
true Buddha nature. Once you are able to identify that underneath these
emotions lies your true self, you will be much better able to dismiss
negative emotions as the false friends that they are.
The difficulty is that the challenges of this world causes eruptions
and emotions that we are not always comfortable with or able to deal
with adequately, because we are imperfect by nature. So when you feel
these emotions building remember to separate yourself from them and
realise that they are not you. More importantly, remember that these
present uncomfortable feelings will pass and newer feelings will
shortly take their place. Sometimes the best solution is to remove
yourself from the situation that is causing you to experience the
negative emotions in the first place.
The reason why we need to understand that these negative
emotions are not who we are is that because these emotions are usually
very powerful: they scream at us for action. And at the moment that
they are the most powerful and intense we often want nothing more than
to react. Unfortunately, these reactions can have very negative
consequences because they are borne of negative emotional states, so
any positive outcome is by definition impossible. This is where you
must call on the discipline that you've learnt in your Budo studies to
give you strength.
We have all done it. We all have had a moment in time and place
that we wish we could rewrite. Something we said or something we did.
Don't worry -- it is in the past and we have all experienced it, so you
are not alone. But it is a lesson for the present and the future. Once
you are able to remember that the emotions you have are separate from
your true nature and true self and that many of us fight this very
battle as well, you'll be better able to react in a more positive
manner and then you'll change your Karma for good. It's up to you!
Budo-Examination:
Do I over-react often and by doing so hurt the other people
around me. Am I a slave to my emotional states or am I able to control
my thoughts and actions in light of them. Do I let my negative feelings
interfere with my Budo studies, do they hold me back? Am I the receiver
of negativity because of things I have said or done. Do I try my best
to seek the positive in all things or do I let negativity rule me?
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